#Relational twitter chat on Monday 11th October

Come and join the #relational twitter chat on October 11th at 8pm UK, 3pm EST and 12pm PST with @stevehearsum, @tiarcarr, @fourgroups, @StandardofTrust@EmergentLdr, @KeyHubs, @NicheMasterMan and @RMInstitute

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Transcript of the #relational twitter chat

6:39 pm fourgroups: Come + join the #relational twitter chat today at 8pm UK, 3pm EST and 12pm PST with @stevehearsum @tiarcarr and @RMInstitute @nichmasterman
7:00 pm StandardofTrust: Effective & efficient business teaming is greatly assisted by cognitive visualization tools Check Out 4G www.FourGroups.com #relational
7:03 pm fourgroups: When managing a team, how do you understand and facilitate all of the combinations of other people’s relationships in your team? #relational
7:03 pm fourgroups: RT @StandardofTrust: Effective & efficient business teaming is greatly assisted by cognitive visualization tools Check Out 4G www.FourGroups.com #relational
7:07 pm RMInstitute: RT @StandardofTrust: Effective & efficient business teaming is greatly assisted by cognitive visualization tools Check Out 4G www.FourGroups.com #relational
7:12 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups start with self and work back from there – only way to understand team interaction is from lived experience #relational
7:14 pm fourgroups: .@PG_Rule @GrahamHill Command and Control is an Illusion – is #relational a reality?
7:16 pm fourgroups: .@stevehearsum are there any alternatives to lived experience? science? physics? electricity? #relational
7:16 pm RMInstitute: http://www.margaretwheatley.com/articles/relationships.html #relational, #leadership
7:17 pm StandardofTrust: Leaders can create strong trusted relationships by having the mindset of service and being vulnerable #relational
7:17 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups good question. They may add insight but cannot substitute for the #phenomenological lens #relational
7:17 pm Keyhubs: @fourgroups are you familiar with belbin? What do you think about it? #relational
7:17 pm StandardofTrust: RT @RMInstitute: http://www.margaretwheatley.com/articles/relationships.html #relational, #leadership
7:18 pm StandardofTrust: RT @fourgroups: When managing a team, how do you understand and facilitate all of the combinations of other people’s relationships in your team? #relational
7:19 pm RMInstitute: How do you build a business without making relationships central? #relational, #socbiz
7:20 pm fourgroups: @Keyhubs #Belbin is interesting, it came from Henley in the 70′s not sure how adaptable it is though? #relational
7:22 pm fourgroups: @stevehearsum so #phenomenology = subjective experiences? http://ow.ly/2Oi2d #relational
7:22 pm RMInstitute: Sharing collegially means building relationally for organisational cohesion. #relational, #organisations
7:22 pm stevehearsum: @RMInstitute only way to build business without #relational is through optical illusion: it’s there anyway, question is r u riding the wave?
7:23 pm tiacarr: RT @fourgroups: @stevehearsum so #phenomenology = subjective experiences? http://ow.ly/2Oi2d #relational
7:23 pm tiacarr: RT @StandardofTrust: Leaders can create strong trusted relationships by having the mindset of service and being vulnerable #relational
7:24 pm fourgroups: The deeper that physicists peer into the nature of reality, the only thing they find is relationships http://ow.ly/2Oi7U #relational
7:24 pm tiacarr: RT @fourgroups: The deeper that physicists peer into the nature of reality, the only thing they find is relationships http://ow.ly/2Oi7U #relational
7:25 pm fourgroups: @RMInstitute does anyone think they can build a business without relationships?!? #devilsadvocate #relational
7:26 pm fourgroups: @GrahamHill – the more you tighten your grip, the more star systems will slip through your fingers #starwars #relational
7:27 pm Keyhubs: @fourgroups @RMInstitute I would have to say that relationships are inseparable from business success #relational
7:27 pm tiacarr: EMOTIONAL LITERACY:an ability to recognize, understand and appropriately express emotions. A key to being real and relational. #relational
7:28 pm StandardofTrust: Measuring and predicting the quality of trusted relationships and commitment from your team is becoming job #1 to firms #relational
7:29 pm tiacarr: CEO’s benefit from being relational? #relational, #leaders
7:31 pm fourgroups: @Keyhubs agreed – we?re all ?bundles of potentiality? that only manifest in relationship http://ow.ly/2Oir7 #relational
7:31 pm RMInstitute: RT @fourgroups: The deeper that physicists peer into the nature of reality, the only thing they find is relationships http://ow.ly/2Oi7U #relational
7:32 pm stevehearsum: RT @tiacarr: EMOTIONAL LITERACY:an ability to recognize, understand and appropriately express emotions. A key to being real and relational. #relational
7:36 pm stevehearsum: @tiacarr yes CEO’s def benefit from being #relational e.g. http://bit.ly/aYDgrb
7:36 pm Keyhubs: RT @StandardofTrust: Measuring and predicting the quality of trusted relationships and commitment from your team is becoming job #1 to firms #relational
7:38 pm stevehearsum: RT @fourgroups: @Keyhubs agreed – we?re all ?bundles of potentiality? that only manifest in relationship http://ow.ly/2Oir7 #relational
7:38 pm RMInstitute: @standardsoftrust, @fourgroups, Relationship capital is built on a high degree of transparency #relational
7:39 pm Keyhubs: Chatting with @fourgroups @stevehearsum @tiacarr @RMInstitute @standardoftrust @emergentldr @NicheMasterMan @saharconsulting #relational
7:40 pm fourgroups: RT @RMInstitute: @standardsoftrust, @fourgroups, Relationship capital is built on a high degree of transparency #relational
7:41 pm StandardofTrust: Successful relationships are driven by individuals who enable their collaboration partners to attain their goals #relational #dtrt
7:43 pm stevehearsum: RT @StandardofTrust: Successful relationships are driven by individuals who enable their collaboration partners to attain their goals #relational #dtrt
7:45 pm fourgroups: .@stevehearsum we can’t scale subjective experiences, so much get’s lost in the gaps between people’s #relational interactions
7:46 pm RMInstitute: Is trustiness next to truthiness? #relational, #stephencolbert
7:50 pm RMInstitute: RT @stevehearsum: @tiacarr yes CEO’s def benefit from being #relational e.g. http://bit.ly/aYDgrb
7:50 pm fourgroups: Is trustiness next to truthiness? Genius wit from @RMInstitute #relational
7:51 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups agreed – so the question is how to ensure the subjective is honoured #relational
7:54 pm michaelbeddows: Does relationship capital follow economic principles? #relational
7:55 pm fourgroups: @stevehearsum ‘so the question is how to ensure the subjective is honoured’ – other questions too add to this too? #relational
7:56 pm StandardofTrust: RT @Keyhubs: Chatting with @fourgroups @stevehearsum @tiacarr @RMInstitute @standardoftrust @emergentldr @NicheMasterMan @saharconsulting #relational
7:57 pm tiacarr: Relational wealth will supplant financial wealth? #relational
7:58 pm StandardofTrust: RT @tiacarr: Relational wealth will supplant financial wealth? #relational
7:59 pm StandardofTrust: RT @fourgroups: Is trustiness next to truthiness? Genius wit from @RMInstitute #relational
8:02 pm fourgroups: .@michaelbeddows ‘Does rel capital follow economic principles?’ scarity of time + attention are different from resources #relational
8:02 pm fourgroups: RT @michaelbeddows: Does relationship capital follow economic principles? #relational
8:07 pm tiacarr: @MichaelBeddows: Does relationship capital follow economic principles? #relational, #economic
8:12 pm tiacarr: Meritocratic organisations need to embrace the value of relationships. #relational
8:13 pm StandardofTrust: RT @tiacarr: @MichaelBeddows: Does relationship capital follow economic principles? #relational, #economic
8:13 pm fourgroups: .@michaelbeddows ‘Does relationship capital follow economic principles?’ I think that is a first class insight #relational
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#Relational twitter chat on Monday 4th October

Come and join the #relational twitter chat on October 4that 8pm UK, 3pm EST and 12pm PST with @stevehearsum, @tiarcarr, @fourgroups, @StandardofTrust and @RMInstitute

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Transcript of the #relational twitter chat

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6:55 pm fourgroups: Just starting the #relational twitter chat with @stevehearsum @tiarcarr and @RMInstitute
7:01 pm fourgroups: Why are organisations reluctant to both ‘think’ relationally or invest in the relational intelligence of their people? #relational
7:05 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups bec unless it is measurable the #relational is deemed unimportant – flawed thinking IMO
7:11 pm fourgroups: .@stevehearsum what about team conflicts and arguments people experience? #relational
7:14 pm fourgroups: .@stevehearsum @NicheMasterMan – how do you measure #relational factors?
7:16 pm SaharConsulting: what is your definition of #relational?
7:17 pm fourgroups: #relational for me is the spaces, patterns, dynamics + experiences between people (but could also be between other things too, e.g. orgs)
7:18 pm fourgroups: @SaharConsulting what is your definition of #relational then btw?
7:32 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups add to that #motivation,;the primary urge of humans to be in #relationship is core to #relational
7:35 pm fourgroups: @stevehearsum We are all social and #relational?
7:37 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups indeed. To be #social is to be #relational., and the latter is often forgotten when the former is discussed.
7:41 pm fourgroups: @stevehearsum so why do you think #relational is forgotten when people talk about #social?
7:46 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups because to engage in the #relational, it requires a willingness to inquire into self,. Many (most?)
7:47 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups pt2! people are not willing to do that #relational
7:48 pm fourgroups: @stevehearsum “Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.” #Jung #relational perhaps?
7:50 pm stevehearsum: RT @fourgroups: @stevehearsum “Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.” #Jung #relational perhaps?
7:51 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups Yes – I think is a good way of looking at it…. #relational
7:53 pm fourgroups: How To Tell Who Is Influencing Whom in a Group Discussion http://ow.ly/2BlKB @brainpicker @joegerstandt #relational
8:01 pm EmergentLdr: #relational what does the suffix of relational do for the meaning?
8:03 pm fourgroups: @EmergentLdr relation to #relational increases the combinations and possibilities?
8:05 pm EmergentLdr: #relational comes from elation to travel with energy, lation is conyey
8:05 pm stevehearsum: @EmergentLdr the suffix -al?… Hmmmm…. A generative process, on-going, co-created?… #relational
8:07 pm fourgroups: From a resume “strong understanding of #relational & demoralized databases” LOL icon smile Transcript of the #relational twitter chat @peteskomoroch @strlen @squarecog @neil_conway
8:09 pm fourgroups: @EmergentLdr so e means to travel with energy? and lation is conyey? intriguing… #relational
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#Relational twitter chat on Wednesday 8th September

Come and join the #relational twitter chat on Wednesday 8th September at 8pm UK, 3pm EST and 12pm PST with @stevehearsum, @tiarcarr, @fourgroups and @RMInstitute

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Transcript of the #relational twitter chat

6:55 pm fitforum: Just starting, the #relational twitter chat with @stevehearsum @tiarcarr and @RMInstitute
7:03 pm fourgroups: What is the value of a #relational perspective?
7:05 pm

stevehearsum: RT @fourgroups: What is the value of a #relational perspective?
7:07 pm fourgroups:

#relational – the position and other properties of the objects are only meaningful relative to other object http://ow.ly/2y6yD #socbiz #hr
7:09 pm stevehearsum:

RT @fourgroups: #relational – the position and other properties of objects are only meaningful relative to other object http://ow.ly/2y6yD
7:10 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups re #relational: does that mean I am an ‘object’? Interesting….

7:10 pm

fourgroups:

20 – 40% of #performance is determined by the quality of people’s relationships http://ow.ly/2y6Hj #relational #hr #socbiz

7:10 pm RMInstitute:

@fourgroups #socialbiz #hr – so #relational pertains to the meaningfulness of our #relationships
7:12 pm fourgroups:

@stevehearsum objects purely serving as a semantix crux, aka a label of convenience, nothing more, nothing less #relational
7:12 pm stevehearsum: @RMInstitute – and in turn we each have a subjective and personal notion of meaningfulness #relational
7:12 pm

RMInstitute: @fourgroups – yes and the quality of our #relationships is determined buy quality of our cumulative interactions #relational #hr #socbiz
7:14 pm fourgroups:

@RMInstitute #relational for me is about the connections and ‘spaces’ we create in-between each other, whilst acknowleding each other
7:16 pm RMInstitute: @stevehearsum yes subjective and yet our relationships provide real value – although not easily identified #relational #hr #socbiz
7:16 pm stevehearsum: @RMInstitute @fourgroups for, me, our individual #phenomenological position is core to what emerges from the #relational
7:19 pm RMInstitute:

@fourgroups Yes absolutely the connections and the ‘space’ – the space is where the potential exists icon wink Transcript of the #relational twitter chat #relational #hr #socbiz
7:21 pm stevehearsum:

@fourgroups @RMinstitute so in context of this discussion, what is your take on the #relational in the #Blair #Brown space?…. #socbiz
7:21 pm fourgroups:

1 approach to #relational identification info http://ow.ly/2y72S + exmple http://ow.ly/2y74g #socbiz @stevehearsum @RMInstitute
7:23 pm RMInstitute:

@steveharsum @fourgroups – Wrote about appreciative inquiry in our RMI Blog Post this week http://bit.ly/bxrwv4 #Relational #hr #socbiz
7:25 pm stevehearsum:

RT @RMInstitute: @steveharsum @fourgroups – Wrote about appreciative inquiry in RMI Blog http://bit.ly/bxrwv4 #Relational #hr #socbiz
7:28 pm fourgroups:

@stevehearsum #Blair #Brown rel was a major fulcrum of new labour + a example of expediency different rel = different outcome #relational
7:32 pm RMInstitute:

@fourgroups @steveharsum @tiacarr #relational Do politicians have personal relationships – Do they go out for a beer after parliament?
7:33 pm stevehearsum:

@fourgroups …another example in the business world e.g. Steve Jobs / Wozniak, the Time Warner/AOL merger foundered on the #relational also
7:34 pm fourgroups: @stevehearsum Tony + Gordon *might* have had Rel. of Discovery, problems may emerge over small points of detail + trivial items #relational
7:35 pm

fourgroups: Is #relational a watchword or a proxy for #conflict?
7:37 pm stevehearsum:

@fourgroups being less flippant, #conflict is an important facet/aspect of the #relational
7:39 pm RMInstitute: @fourgroups @steveharsum @tiacarr #relational Fit or Form? Do we need to fit into an existing culture or can a new culture be informed
7:40 pm fourgroups:

@stevehearsum surely there would be no #relational without some form of #conflict – a world without conflict is homogenous in the extreme?
7:42 pm RMInstitute:

@tiacarr Yes – thinking relationally is a change of thinking – @fourgroups @stevehearsum #relational #hr
7:43 pm stevehearsum:

@RMInstitute it depends on your definition of ‘culture’…. we need to establish shared understanding of the construct, #relational
7:44 pm tiacarr: RT @stevehearsum: @RMInstitute it depends on your definition of ‘culture’…. we need to establish shared understanding of the construct, #relational

7:47 pm

fourgroups:

Thinking relationally is a change of #thinking @tiacarr @stevehearsum @StandardofTrust @RMInstitute #relational

7:47 pm RMInstitute:

@stevehearsum Culture #1 An integrated pattern of human knowledge, belief, and behavior @fourgroups #relational @tiacarr
7:48 pm tiacarr:

@fourgroup, @stevehearsum. @rminstitute Isn’t it time relationship capital stood for real value? #relational #relationshipcapital
7:48 pm RMInstitute:

@stevehearsum Culture #2 The set of shared attitudes, values, goals, and practices @fourgroups #relational @tiacarr
7:49 pm fourgroups:

Why do people accept #conflict as inevitable? Or maybe its just me? Can we ‘scale’ ideal #relational outcomes?
7:49 pm tiacarr: RT @RMInstitute: @stevehearsum Culture #1 An integrated pattern of human knowledge, belief, and behavior @fourgroups #relational @tiacarr
7:50 pm fourgroups:

@tiacarr how do you measure and value #relational capital?
7:50 pm RMInstitute: tiacarr

rt @tiacarr @fourgroup, @stevehearsum. @rminstitute Isn’t it time relationship capital stood for real value? #relational

7:51 pm stevehearsum:

@RMInstitute I tend towards ur Culture #2. E.g. organisational culture is experienced through the behaviors of people in system #relational
7:52 pm fourgroups: Does human capital and #talent #management account for the #relational?
7:52 pm tiacarr: RT @fourgroups: Does human capital and #talent #management account for the #relational?
7:55 pm fourgroups: Organisational #culture is experienced through the behaviors of people in the #relational system @stevehearsum
7:55 pm stevehearsum: @fourgroups no, I suspect they don’t. The #relational is too easily dismissed, and challenging, for human capital and #talent #management
7:55 pm tiacarr: RT @stevehearsum @RMInstitute I tend towards Culture #2. organisational culture experienced by behaviors of people in system #relational
7:55 pm RMInstitute: @fourgroups @stevehearsum @tiacarr http://tinyurl.com/2g9kf5j Defining #P2P as the #relational dynamic of distributed networks
7:56 pm tiacarr:

RT @RMInstitute: @fourgroups @stevehearsum @tiacarr http://tinyurl.com/2g9kf5j Defining #P2P as the #relational dynamic of distributed networks
8:02 pm tiacarr:

Relationships in organisations impacted by cultural diversity? A case for relational model: http://bit.ly/b5dIOY #relational #culture
8:05 pm stevehearsum: #relational is growing http://bit.ly/aLkSn3

8:05 pm

fourgroups:

@stevehearsum #relational is also hard to measure at the moment, what isn’t measured isn’t managed

8:11 pm

fourgroups: .@tiacarr a paper on relationships + #performance http://ow.ly/2y8Ks and 1 on a #relational view of perf mgmnt http://ow.ly/2y8Ll
8:13 pm stevehearsum:

RT @RMInstitute: @fourgroups – yes and the quality of our #relationships is determined by quality of our cumulative interactions #relational
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#Relational twitter chat on Wednesday 1st September

Come and join the #relational twitter chat on Wednesday 1st September at 8pm UK, 3pm EST and 12pm PST with @stevehearsum, @tiarcarr, @fourgroups and @RMInstitute

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First #relational twitter chat transcript

7:47 am

fourgroups:

Does #socialmedia have a #relational perspective?

7:47 am

RMInstitute: Fit is used to frame interpersonal relationships in multiple context http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_fit #relational
7:49 am stevehearsum:

Talking #relational right now with @fourgroups @RMInstitute and @fourgroups
7:49 am RMInstitute:

#relational Question for today What is human Fit? #Humanfit
7:51 am fourgroups: RT @stevehearsum: Talking #relational right now with @fourgroups @RMInstitute and @fourgroups
7:51 am fourgroups:

RT @RMInstitute: #relational Question for today What is human Fit? #Humanfit
7:52 am RMInstitute: RT @stevehearsum: Talking #relational right now with @fourgroups @RMInstitute and @fourgroups
7:54 am fourgroups:

Just starting a twitter chat on #relational and what is #humanfit with @RMInstitute @stevehearsum @tiacarr
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New hashtags on twitter, #relational and #humanfit

Via the great http://wthashtag.com site, the #relational and #humanfit hashtags have now been claimed icon smile New hashtags on twitter, #relational and #humanfit

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Collaboration: where now? David Coleman interview available now

The audio for the second interview with David Coleman is now available. Themes to emerge during the interview this time round:

  • Where now for collaboration? In the context of the economic downturn, and reduced budgets for OD in general, how do collaboration specialists make a strong business case for what they do?
  • Measuring the impact of collaboration – ‘impact’ seems to be used often in conjunction with collaboration in the UK. But what does it mean? How easy/difficult is it to balance the impact that a business may wish to achieve with what individuals experience?
  • Leadership and collaboration – to what extent is collaboration seen by management as ‘something that other people do’?
  • Educating organisations in how to move to new collaborative models: what are the most effective ways of doing this?

David is the founder and Managing Director of Collaborative Strategies. He specializes in, amongst other things, online community and social network marketing & development, community management and various related fields. He is the author of 42 Rules for Successful Collaboration.

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